Letting go was the one thing I never thought I would have to do but is the absolute best thing I have ever done. I am free now. No more pain, no hurt, no unanswered desire. With freedom, the one door that was slammed on me became a thousand more open doors all offering everything and anything imaginable. I had grown so much since the break-up but hadn't allowed myself to move on and live. I am fully alive, not due to having met someone, unless meeting myself, the person I have always been but stifled counts. Happiness is mine once again, I see the many reasons I would not go back to that painful relationship. I see them clearly enough to know that being apart is the right thing.
Janis Joplin said alot when she sang, "freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose," I haven't lost anything, have nothing to lose, and all to gain. Life is an adventure once again and I intend to enjoy and live every second of it for what it is, all the while, being who I am!